Hi~Tommy,
How are you doing?
Well....I think you may surprise why I write letter to you....and maybe you even don't remember who I am.
I have known you for a long long long~~~~~time since I was a high school student.
You are the one who makes my dearest sister really CRAZY! :-)
My sister told my lots of things about you. She said you are like Brad Pitt, and how sexy you are. Haha :D
And that's why I know a little bit about your situation right away.
My Father gave me a book named " The Present". He wanted me to know what should I "pay attention" ,what should I just "let go" and even what should I prepare for the future.
Be honesty, I doubted it before I read....I am not sure a "Fables" can give me what I need.
After I read it. I have to say, it's absolutely a great book and worthy of everyone to read!
Maybe you should read it first, then you may understand why I write to you.
I always feel I have no time in my life. I don't know when my life will go to the end....maybe it will end tomorrow or next minute. This thought always can balance me.
I mean, when I sad, this kind of thought can make me feel better, cause I don't have to think too much. All I need to do is to catch "the present". I have to do things which I need to do and won't regret.(I have no time to regret...my life is going to end...:P)
I have already 24 years old( this makes me feel.....not so good...>"<). And if I will get merry at age of 30....I only have 6 years to be a single. I want to have a happy single life for the next 6 years. What is a happy single life? How to define that? How to get? Am I qualified? These are the questions which I need to think.
Just like you.
You want to have a happy life for your rest of life...and you have no idea how long it will be.
You think your lily(She is soooooooo cute..I think everyone will smile while being with her) is your happiness. Then, you should try everything to make she happy. It is always a bad thing that your relationship with your wife is so bad. Lily will realize more and more as time goes by.
Thus, you have to solve you and baby's Moms' problem first. if you don't love her, then just let her go. Maybe she will find another man who can give her what she wants. If you don't love her, she is not your responsibility anymore. If you still have some feeling with her, then, plz try. Try to love her more.
There is one thing important I think I need to tell you....
Even you live with Lily, it doesn't mean that Lily won't leave you.
And even you don't see Lily everyday, It doesn't mean that Lily will leave you.
You should think if you can't give baby's Mom happy... then baby won't be happy. She will understand that you don't love her Mom and she will be confused why you are still stick together. You are not happy and so is her Mom. Princes and Princess "should" together “happily” forever. Even it is a tell, but it is the heart should feel when two people together.
Do something good to you.
You deserve a better life, so does baby's Mom and lily.
And the gift is the present .. you won't know what will happen in the next second.
Learn form the past...and you have a worse 2 years....you should finished it first and then have a new start.
Time won’t wait for you. Soon… you will be an old man. If you want to be a man who you dreamed, then it’s time to start. Of course we should think what to do and to make some decisions. But time still moves on, it won’t wait for you after you think “OK” or “ PERFECT”.
If you want to have a happy life, you should catch the moment right away. When you are breathing, listening to music, seeing movies…even fight with your wife…because you still alive you can fight with her. And Of of course.. if you love my sister, you should catch every moment to be with her.
Just do it! Things are hard to be perfect. It’s always something we need to be sacrificed. But you have already spared no effort to do the best.
I think you are a romantic person just like my sister. It’s a wonderful thing. But you still have to face the problem, take it and solve it, then let it go.
I love my sister so much… don’t want to see her get hurt. I hope she can be happy everyday, so do you. Because you are the one my sister love.
I do wish you could have a trip to Taiwan.
Maybe you can take Lily or your wife together. (If you decide to be together.)
And it’s also a good thing for you to come alone to think something or discuss with my sister. So….save money first.
Stuffs in Taiwan are cheap…so you just have to worry about air ticket.
Please be a happy person. Only you can be truly happy, Lily will have a happy childhood.
It’s all about life. It’s about happiness. It’s all about love. It’s all about the present. If you have every present happy…then, you have a happy life of course.
Be Happy ?
Lou’s younger sister
Elsa
一封英文信，寫的肝腸寸斷不說，居然寫下有史以來花時間最久之記錄。
而且還語焉不詳。
真是好想哭喔>"<
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