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[親子之間] 小小"煙霧偵測器"

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7/24/2006

"妳有在呼吸嗎?"

"什麼?"

"妳有屏氣嗎?"

"為什麼要屏氣?"

"剛剛旁邊那個女生在抽煙呀! 我有屏氣ㄡ" 他很得意的說

昨天在一個好大的停車場, 我們大概走過一個抽煙女子身邊, 相隔幾部車罷? 我真的一點都沒注意到.

今天車子剛轉進超市停車, 他指著老遠的地方說我可以跟妳打賭那個人一定在抽煙, 我說很可能, 因為室內不能抽囉! (他真在抽)

"他會不會被fire?"

"應該不會因抽煙被 fire, 那是他自己對健康做的壞選擇罷!"

不知為何, 他近來對這件事非常關心注意, 我開玩笑說他是 "smoke detector" (煙霧偵測器)

他問我許多問題: 爺爺,外公以前有抽煙嗎? 有抽很久嗎? 為什麼戒的呢? 妳抽過沒有? 為什麼沒有? 抽了會怎麼樣?

好在他沒看日劇, 我看日本人抽的挺多的, 在"大鼻的抗癌日記"甚至提到年少就因看日劇羨慕他們抽煙的瀟灑才開始抽煙的!

此間抽煙的人比例不是很高, 孩子在學校的健康教育很早就開始宣導, 其實到高中很多問題都出來了, 毒品. 酗酒. 亂性. 抽煙相較之下還算小case.

我蠻高興他給我個機會, 順便提提其他這些不可為之事的前因後果, 不知道他明白多少, 不過希望他繼續對所有這些不良行為都保持距離, 愈遠愈好!


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pwipwi
Dear Mercy,

今天去剪頭髮
跟美髮師要了花粉染資料
說是名為henna起源自印度
bingo, 應該就是妳所說的印度漢娜
以上, 報告完畢
2006-07-29 20:43:06
Doreen
My kid is exactly like that too. Not only he’d stay FAR away from the smokers (who normally staying around the store entrance), cover his nose, and he’d say to them by quoting that ”1 person die of smoking every 6 sec..etc” when he passed by those smokers. He did one time when he was shopping w/ his cousins, who thought it was hilarious. And I had to tell him the ”behavior norm” and ”respect for differences”. ”Different people, different strokes”. The same thing holds true to his belief in drinking (totally anti alcohol, including beer and champaqne, which I like sometime for the occasions and he’d give me hard time), and drug..etc.

Should we say that we need to give the health education in middle school credit? The answer is definitely a ”yes”!! But I hope they can do more, for example, by including anti-premarital sex.
2006-07-30 04:35:20
Mercy
Dear Pwipwi

Thank you, I have a lot of short gray hair now, not sure what to do with them when they grow 1 or 2 inches longer.

Henna is kind of popular here but I think it is very time consuming, good to know that one of the hairdressers I know is willing to use it.

Thanks again..

Have a great weekend!
2006-07-30 10:37:35
Mercy
Dear Doreen

Great to read your message here!

You are right, I think they did a good job, T is only 4th grade though, so they started this ”brain wash” from elemantary school, well done!

Me, too, wouldn’t want his behavior hurts other’s feeling.

As for sex, I remember I have listned a tape of our guest speaker from Indiana talked about this , she used candy for example, she said if you pass out candy bar to anyone, chances are people will be happily accept it but if you open the wrap and lick it, then no one would want it.
Know what she means?
2006-07-30 10:47:27
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