病假期間，我跟我媽抱怨過工作太累，應該換工作之類的屁話，我媽便寫信來安慰我。等我感覺稍好後，也沒那麼想離職，也就回信給我媽，接著她就回了一封頗長的信來開釋我，分享她對人生與職場的建議。
無論主客觀來說，都相當誠摯感人，在此與各位分享。她因長期在外商公司上班，英打一百，中打五分，所以全文英文。另，母親稱讚女兒之處，那是做為母親的偏言，看看就好。
不過特別要強調，我媽面對面還是相當令我感覺驚恐的，不過用文字書寫是個慈母，哇哈哈哈。
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Dear,
Always always happy to hear from you ..... i'm your fan, remember???
You are a super girl that makes most my friends jealous for you never bring me bothers and that's also the reason to keep me young .... ho ho ...
That called "professional burnout" happens to us quite often. Do you know how i handle when it happens to me???
It usually happens when you have some constant unpleasant situation to your job, no any reasons just works not so well and meet all kinds of problems making you feeling like to quit rite away. I will first of all to try my best to workout the problems happenning to me, no matter how it goes not so smooth, just concentrate to have it accomplished may be in a unpleasant situation, but make it done in time.
Keep quiet in office most of time unless there's a must. Keep working and checking to be sure what you do is accurate. Then get back home having rest or watching fond movies, whatever,, just don't talk to anyone then leave time to yourslef, thinking, sleeping in bad watching ceiling, eating frunits etc ..... setting free for yourself will help you to find the truth for everything. what the purpose you want and what you like and what you really want to do....
Sometimes you may find no matter you don't like your job, you will see it's in fact not a bad one because it's more than difficult to find a better one. especailly when you join a new field, you would find there are some others problems that's out of your expectation.
Why the organizations need us to work just becasue they have different kind of probems and never stop. I guess there is a position, there are problems. You may find a new one, a better fitting one, but must in a common situation with a peace mind that you have all your puzzles in minds settled, you work well with the top guys as well as your staffs. what i meant you'll have a clear mind to think about quitting issue under a right situation so can make a fair judgment and a right decision.
When you walking forward, be sure you'll have your 1st step still and stable b4 starting the next one. Make sure what you request in the future including the budge, the position and the future plans.
Pray to God and be patient watching, searching and waiting. If you do need one, you'll have an answer there and you can see it clearly. just be patient and no hurry.
I keep reminding you becasue you are in a quite good situation with a good job and not bad company. You may not feel satisfactory but can't deny it's a good one to compare with the others. However, if you do think you need to make a change after a delebrate consideration, or you just feelilng you need a change to relax yourself to chase an another purpose, go ahead as long as it's what you want.
As i said life ia very short, go chasing what you really need a fun and a happy life to accomplish what we called not wasting lifes. I do trust you dear, and no need to worry anything. Pray and find the guide, alright?? i'll be with you always.
Love you and many hugs,
mom
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