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Question 4: How does he/her treat others?
Answer: Improving importance of social relationships is to give competency. By meaning have the competency of giving others happiness. Ask this, does he/she likes to give, or he/she is a selfish and self-centered person? Think about the situation when he treats the people that won’t return any favors, such as waiters, taxi driver. How does he/she treat parents and siblings? Does e/her know how to thank others? If he/she won’t even thank the people who gave him/her everything, don’t expect that he/she will thank you.
Does this person talks about gossip and back-stabbing other? Someone who would gossip are someone who does not understand love. You can be sure that he/she does not treat other very well, thus he/she wouldn’t treat you well.

Question 5: After we married, would I be able to change this person?
Answer: Common mistakes that people make is that they would try to “change” their partner after they are married. One of my colleague explained: If you wish that someone would change after they married, it will be changed into worse. If you cannot accept what he/she is now, you are not prepared to get marry.
In conclusion, during the dating stage, there should not be too much difficulties and danger. The main thing is to use more brain and less commitment. When you are only dating, you should try to be impersonal, and try to ask the questions that would help towards the relationship. Falling in love is a beautiful thing, however, when you wake up with a ring on your finger, you shouldn’t be thinking that you have not done enough preparation which placed yourself in a mistake.