I just remembered a song in Chinese about friends… It just suddenly popped into my head and I started to sing it…
Friends are the people who we share all our life with besides family. No one can ever go back to the beginning and change the history of their lives…
In a period of life time… I always think of my friends first then my family… friends seems more important to me… is it because that they are my peers or I just hated my family?
Friends are the ones who understand us mentally…
“…friends listen to what you don’t say…”
I can’t recall where the quote came from… but I know it definitely true…
As my life goes on, I probably will finally, eventually found myself fit in to the place I want to fit in… but when??
When all my friends with any race, any nationality, are like me… we are all seeking for someone like ourselves to be friend with…
But what happens when someone can’t find a place to fit him/herself in, and the society is not taking him/her in either…
Sounds so familiar… Darwin’s theory of “natural selection”, where nature select the survivors, and they are not necessary have to be the strongest…
I think, for human beings, they have to be the strongest, not physically, but mentally… one must have certain degree of mutuality to survive the cruel world as the time goes onto the new millennium…
-oct 2002
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