dear sue
i have appointment later, can’t possibly write message in chinese before going off, so please bear with me.
thanks for your letter. i will be waiting for it eagerly. hope the address is right though :)
i will be going back to mummy’s place to get my car this weekend :) today i have to go shop around for things to enhance the security and safety of the car. phew, all these will cost me a bomb. waiting for the bomb to explode.
i dont quite know how to deal with kids/babbies etc. but i think for myself, i deal with my doggie. tons of things that i wont tell/show anyone i tell him. i wont hesitate hugging him/ kissing him umpteen times like there is no tomorrow, keeping him accompanied, playing with him for a while no matter how late i get home, but i swear i wont do these to any person! i think that is the difference, when dealing with people we tend to think/consider too much of how "things" around will feel about it, and the receiver itself. but to a pet this is totally ignored. :)
Ah B might not see your points, or sense your tiredness etc. Maybe you can try let him know, ask him to give you massages etc (free of charge of course). perhaps you can let him know that you need his help sometimes, and his help is really appreciated. in that way he knows that he has the ability to help you reduce the load, at the same time he will be more independent, trying to sort things out by himself. i think there isn’t any perfection that we can look forward to, no matter how well the parents taking care of the kids, surely the kids will miss out something here and there. Pls dont blame yourself, try to work things out in a positive manner ok?
gotta go. talk to you next time.
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