Trace back to Adam and Eve, man and woman have been gifted this mercy to born to be different. And it is these differences that make us complement and support each other through life.
Sensible VS sentimental
Mature men are sensible and so do mature women, however what makes them so different in handling matters? By far, it’s the patriarchal hegemony. Since men are born to keen on power, whereas women tend to be peace lovers ---- I do not deny that this might be a misconception ---- Therefore, in order to prevent clashes with men, women need to make concessions and act like sentimental. Only in this way, men are empowered to make every decision for women because seemingly they are not capable in doing so. Thus men’s self-esteem is respected and they are proud and satisfied to be a policymaker, hence, so as to keep this sense of superiority, they have to manage things sensibly and rationally, otherwise they might be dismissed next time. And for women, what’s better than step back a litter bit, and let the fool do the job for you?
Tough VS Fragile
In order to survive in this competitive world, one should be more flexible and strengthen his/her capability to prevent elimination. It’s really hard for men to put aside their face and prestige, so they choose the latter way, and indeed they do find their channel for survival. How about women? They are born to be small and weak physically, they ought to have been hectored. If you have this kind of thinking, then you must be an idiot since you have already underestimated one of the formidable powers in this world. Fragility is the most lethal weapon of women and it always help to tackle problem effortlessly. What is better than act like pitiable and innocent but staying in a car with an air-conditioner, instead of changing a flat tyre under the scorching sun?
Negligent VS attentive
Woman is clever for they can unconsciously bully the man and still the men do not notice at all or even consider themselves as the winner. It sounds quite cunning, right? However, in essence, women are not that bad! They compensate to the man in certain ways. Being attentive is one of them. Men are butterfingers in many circumstances, they might neglect others feelings or get hurt by their boorish actions. Therefore, woman always need to clear up the messes. It is a tough job since there might be no reward. Take a look at your mother, then you may find out how much efforts she had put to clear the tobacco ashes, or to break embarrassing deadlock between your dad and your grandpa!
Frankly, listing all the differences between men and women is an impossible mission. However, getting to know these differences allows both men and women to get to know ourselves better and to discover our own qualities and our own uniqueness. And with the understanding, men and women are more likely to live harmoniously and cooperate with each other. That is why this is God’s mercy. Consequently, try to find our more in your life, and you will be benefit from it!
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