自言自語之另一種平靜 因為這些插曲 所以我們才擁有更好的人~生

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Good Look  - check

Job title - check

Annual income - check

Property - check

Personality - check

Habits/interests - check

Sex - ???

 

When we look for our ideal partner, we check all these items.

We observe people as a future parter.

If he fits the bill, then we consider as a candidate.

We start to hang out more often, talk all night long. Try our best to know him.

 

Is this a relationship starts from love ???

Do we love him deep inside from our heart?

 

I watched the series " Sex and the city", I wondered.

In the movie,that partner must meet all items and the relastionshipe can last longer.

 

Please note, I did not say "forever".

 

We meet someone who is cute, nice, makes our hear running fast everytime we meet.

But he doesn't earn enough income as we expect.

What do we do?

We need to prioritize the items on the check list.

Treat him as a NORMAL friend, or re-priorize our list.

到底怎樣的因素能讓我們跟一個人維持久一點呢

心動的感覺 還是外在條件

Finn 說,一切就要看自己追求的到底是什麼？

是什麼呢？？




年紀不同 似乎想的就不一樣了

以前是不顧一切轟轟烈烈 心動就行動的
現在呢？




還沒想出自己的答案 ...還需要一點時間