Dear Sharry:
Someone gave this to me one day, and it changed how I
was able to deal with my problems, hope it helps you
too...
and, about your problems, well,
1. your father wants you to do your best, do your
best... not more than you can do, not less, right?
remember, only you know what your best is.
One importnat thing to remember is not that you are
unlucky when you get lessons but that God thinks you
are ready for them, so you are lucky.
You will have arguments with people, all your life,
until you don’t need them to learn something, right?
"The Rules for Being Human"
When you were born, you didn’t come with an owner’s
manual; these guidelines make life work better.
1. You will receive a body. You may like it or hate
it, but it’s the only thing you are sure to keep for
the rest of your life.
2. You will learn lessons. You are enrolled in a
full-time informal school called life on planet earth.
every person or incident is the Universal Teacher.
3. There are no mistakes, only lessons. Growth is a
process of experimentation. "Failures" are as much a
part of the process as "success."
4. A lesson is repeated until learned. It is presented
to you in various forms until you learn it--then you
can go on to the next lesson.
5. If you don’t learn easy lessons, they get harder.
External problems are a precise reflection of your
internal state. When you clear inner obstructions,
your outside world changes. Pain is how the universe
gets your attention.
6. You will know you’ve learned a lesson when your
actions change. Wisdom is practice. A little of
something is better than a lot of nothing.
7. "There" is no better than "here." When your "there"
becomes a "here" you will simply obtain another
"there" that again looks better than "here."
8. Others are only mirrors of you. You cannot love or
hate something about another unless it reflects
something you love or hate in yourself.
9. Your life is up to you. Life provides the canvas:
you do the painting. Take charge of your life--or
someone else will.
10. You always get what you want. Your subconscious
rightfully determines what energies, experiences, and
people you attract--therefore, the only foolproof way
to know what you want is to see what you have. There
are no victims, only students.
11. There is no right or wrong, but there are
consequences. Moralizing doesn’t help. Judgments only
hold the patterns in place. Just do your best.
12. Your answers lie inside you. Children need
guidance from others: as we mature, we trust our
hearts, where the Laws of Spirit are written. You know
more than you have heard or read or been told. All you
need to do is to look, listen, and trust.
13. You will forget all this, but you can remember any
time you wish.
這是高中的恩師 Mr.Gilles寫給我的一封信
我想想，Gilles說的是對的
上天給予了自己的人生許多磨練
並不是因為自己運氣不好
或是自己倒楣透頂
是因為上天認為
自己已經準備好面對未來
所以自己是幸運的
Gilles寫的這封信
雖然我看了好幾次
但是每當我心情煩透時
只要看了這封信
就讓自己釋懷好多好多
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