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What do you think about “responsibility”?

I have just one job since I graduated from university.

Many of my friends and coworkers think it’s a pity that a girl at my age living her life likes a countryside worker or a glutton for work.

In their opinion, a girl at my age might be like who’s always doing something exciting, interesting, attracting … and so on to enrich her life experiences.

In my opinion, I don’t really care about the age and the things I’ve came through.

Because I think all the things you went through can only enrich your memories, but not your heart and soul.

Then, how to distinguish a person with a rich life experiences from a person has an abundant spirit?

Maybe it depends on if the person has his or her own responsibilities from tiny things to the strangers, friends, families … and himself / herself.

The “responsibility” here is not that huge like doing something good to the country or the environment; the meaning is more like “caring other’s feelings”.

In Chinese culture, inheritance is a very important thing to prove a clan’s will or the successful nurture of a parent.

Also, there are still some clan and family affections in it.

I’m not that kind of person whom‘re always having their strong attempts to lead their own lives.

I always need a life guide in different phases of my life to show me their demands and expectancies.

Thus, I can always find the bright side of dark, the positive way to emerge from the mystery of life.

I always think if you want to know a person who’s living his / her own life worthy or waste, just give it a question to the families … “Will they want to be his / her families once more if life can start over again?”

Love is complicated, people can’t figure it out even they spent whole their lives to find out the answer.

Everything has its opposite angle, and the plain side of love … I believe it’s in our deeply heart.