i’m difficult 情願兩忘，也不要再走進死蔭幽谷。

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看了mamimama 的blog，mama posted了這兩篇專家談及長子/女與孻子/女的分別，才明白我們的性格的確是南轅北轍，且是born to be的。
也就是說，我們沒可能諒解對方。
再沒有甚麼話好說，各自好自為之吧！

"First borns – the leaders, the drivers and the responsible types. They love to feel in control and can feel uncomfortable with surprises or feeling out of their depth. They are conservative in their outlook, which is both a strength and a weakness. Their ability to focus on a goal and their propensity to organise others means they can achieve whatever they put their minds to. Their tendency toward perfectionism can mean they can be low risk-takers but they can be the rock around which organisations can be built. Approval of authority is important for this group so don’t expect them to rock the boat too much. First borns, above all else, want to forge ahead."

"Youngests – the initiators, ideas people and the challengers. This group are the creative, live-for-the moment types who can put some fun and verve into activities. While the message for first borns is to lighten up it seems that this group need to take things more seriously sometimes. Great initiators and very impatient doers, they perservere to get something started but often are not the greatest of finishers. This group will often do anything to be noticed so make sure you pay heed to their efforts. Youngests, above all else, will blow your mind."


Painting: "The New Born, 1992" by Endre Roder