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Seeing through a web article excerpted from The New York Times “My daughters are fine, but I’ll never be the same.” This germinated me somehow the thoughtful mind. It mainly discussed about the impact after her two daughters had gone through the malicious illness was and is affected by, and is apparently hard to cure even the girls live well since then. Throughout the case, I begin to monitor at which happened on my parents. The scar on our skin can be healed and has no marks left though, but the mental trauma of the cause we hurt may accompany with rest of your life.

I myself, a lively example, have implanted so many upset and down memories in my parents’ mind. From the serious diarrhea that almost took my life but recuperated by punctilious care; from delivering to I.C.U due to contracting bronchitis and coughing about overnight; from the bad conduction in school that roughly caused me flunking out. I believe the theory in article “the illusion of safety and success every parents wish to”, and so did be embedded in my parents. Every time while arguing with my parents, one thing I always hated and felt grueling was again and again digging out those disgraceful past of me. And if I disputed those with them, it will be regarded as aversion and escapist. Nonetheless, for those can be the trauma forever to them. For so long, I just could not understand why they recalled it repeatedly which I have no atonement unless the time machine was invented—not until did it come out presently that the turning point will never occur. It is therefore that felt harassing and frowning; but, I am too selfish if once a time stands on their viewpoint.

I bet the toil they bear is hardly sympathized unless we become others’ parents; moreover, we may encumber more than they did. One thing is verified now is whatever you become somebody or nobody, or do not fulfill their expectation, they will never bill you to ask the repayments and gratitude—if they really do care about you. All they have done are just because you are the son or daughter of them.

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