Do you have the problem in communicating with a stranger or a person who you’re unfamiliar?Do you have the embarress experience in a party?
Perhaps you find it’s hard to blend in with others.If you do ,please follow me,maybe the suggestions i gived is useful to you……
Some people always feel so shy and uneasy with strangers that they don’t know how to open the comversation.
That ’s the critical problem.
Why not using some simple questions to break the ice.just like:
How is everything going?what’s the weather like?"and so on……
It’s a good way to make you close to others in mental.
You also can talk something that the person interested in.such like the habits ,the sports,the favourite food,the music,the movie even the star sign……
Make sure to keep smile and look into other’s eyes while you’re talking.Being a good listener is also important too.
Try not to interrupt others when they’re talking.It shows that you’re polite and respect to them.It will let others feel comfortable ,relax and easy to get along with you.
The self-confidence is a critical factor too.
Make sure to keep confidence when you’re taling with other people.
Choose the topics depands on the situation and the people,try not to mention the privacy of other people.cos it’s not a good manner to do so.....
Communication is not only a tool but a skill in the modern society.
Learning how to communicate with others will bring you some rewards and it’s the stage to succeed.
If you want to being a good talker,use the advices what i had given above,choose a interesting topic ,being easy and confidence when you are talking.Maybe it also will bring you some new friends too.
Come on ,why not try it now with the strangers around you.
Thank you for listening!
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