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我妹跟她男友交往約3年多
                                                                               
她男友是成大的大學生,剛開始我很贊同他們在一起
                                                                               
但是我媽對他不打算念研究所,還有他的外表不是很滿意
                                                                               
我還常常勸我媽說我妹男友不錯阿之類的
                                                                               
我妹後來大學一畢業直接考上高考三級,已經是公務員
                                                                               
可是...她男友畢業之後到現在3年多......
                                                                               
都沒工作,在家當米蟲給自己媽媽養
                                                                               
(他們家是單親家庭,媽媽是直銷人員,家境不好)
                                                                               
當兵也因為體重過輕只當1個月那種
                                                       
畢業第一年說要考國外研究所準備
                                                                               
畢業第二年說要跟朋友開店準備
                                                                               
畢業第三年說要做直銷一年賺一百萬給我妹吃好的穿好的之類的...
                                                                               
最近他在民航局當約聘人員,然後跟我妹說公務員沒什麼厲害,
                                                                               
嘴巴說以後要做很大...很大的事業,然後賺的錢都要給我妹
                                                                               
她以後就是有錢人,少奶奶,貴婦......
                                                                               
我妹聽了直點頭,一直跟我們說想把公務員工作辭掉.....
                                                                               
然後她也不想念研究所深造,因為她男友說念研究所也沒什麼厲害...
                                                                               
                                                                               
然後我一整個大爆走了......
                                                                               
就反對她男友跟她在一起
                                                                               
她就氣的不跟我講話,說我又不瞭解他男友,又不是神仙

怎麼知道她男友將來不會是大公司的大老闆賺大錢
                                                                               
怎麼知道念研究所繼續當公務員就很有未來
                                                                               
                                                                               
坦白說我妹外表身材是可以上表特那種,腦袋也很精明,
                                                                               
要是去相親....一堆公務員工程師老師律師醫生隨她選....
                                                                               
我還真不曉得為什麼....要跟那種男的在一起...
                                                                               
可能我思想比較老,覺得交往是會結婚的
                                                                               
所以難免對她擔心,難免希望她可以找條件比較好的另一半
                                                                               
或許對原po或我妹來說....都是多心了吧