@~Emmanuel~@ @~Emmanuel~@ Everyday, everywhere, every minute, every second...... Where Love Flows, Happiness Follows It only takes a few seconds to open profound wounds in those they love, and it takes many years to heal them......

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今早o既psycho分兩part, 一part alice教(adulthood), 另一part gemma教(ageing). 真係幾enjoy上psycho~ 尤其係alice教~~ 今日講psychosocial development in adulthood, 因著alice o既簡易例子, 生動o既講法, 以及粗俗o既用詞, 呢課都尚算易明~ 其間仲了解o左自己更多.

講到intimacy vs isolation時, 我覺得都好中下~~~ 當一個adult(其實都唔只係adult先係咁) 得唔到intimacy 時, 往往都會shift 向自我isolation, 我最近就係咁...... "intimacy"...對於我o黎講, 似乎好難得到...

又講到sternberg's triangular theory of love o既三個components: intimacy, passion, commitment. 呢三個component可以衍生八個mode of love. 哈~ 最perfect o既, 當然係"consummate love" la~ 只是我一直都覺得, 除了在主中, 世上根本就找不到consummate love. 若然可以, 我會希望得到companionable love, 其實這是我一直都希望得到的, 就是少了一份passion, 我覺得這已經很足夠. "romantic love"...哈~~~ 真係一d都唔恨law~ 既然係無commitment, 咁我覺得o係埋一齊係無意思的~ "fatuous love"...哈~ 一講到呢個我就諗起britney spears, 佢簡直就係一個活生生o既例子~! totally fatuous~~

之後講到middle age o既midelife crisis, 我就諗起爸爸. 愈聽就愈覺得......唉~~~都唔知點講...... 知道得身邊o既人o既情況愈多, 愈覺得自己可以做o既好少, 好無能~ 佢三個"五"之中, 中o左兩個半"五", 我都唔知點support 佢好...

上完alice堂就到gemma, 佢一開始就發脾氣, o係o度用佢那張"擘唔大"o既口鬧人, 無聊~! 搞到我d mood 無o酉~~~~ 又眼瞓wor~ 結果我前後瞓o左半個鐘~ 又係唔明點解咁多同學仔都見到我瞓覺~~? 我已經坐o左o係角落頭位ga la wor~~~ >.<; 講ageing 時o係o度諗, 如果爸爸好命可以活到七十幾歲, 咁佢就只剩下廿年o既日子, 到底我可以點樣對佢好d, 令佢往後o個廿年可以過得開心d 呢?
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lunch之後學firt aid, 學包手~ 學得還可以的la~^.^~
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放學時paulpaul突然話校長俾o左五張"心靈音樂會"o既tickets俾我o地, 結果我攞o左三張, 咁o岩sean都會去, 咁就join埋去lu~ 可惜個個都唔得閒, 所以我淨係搵到雄雄去.
個音樂會真係"好音樂會"law~ 雖則係基督教o既, 但就好少講信仰o既o野, 主要都係聽歌~ 都幾富視聽娛樂~~^.^ 鄧惠欣(male) 把聲真係好靚~~~ 果然係ex-DJ, 功架十足, 連清唱都難唔到佢~~! *0*
eternity d 和音又係好正! 真係聽出耳油~~~