各位 距離上次發表 又有一段時間了! 呵呵
所以我趕緊回來依下~
不過 我今天的目標是打完這個以後馬上去把我chemistry剩下的讀完
預定在九點多 恩..有點困難度
至少十點以前啦
我已經很久沒有在正常的時間睡覺了
上個禮拜還有這個禮拜 我都滿多事情的
而且 不知道為什麼 個人可能因為太多事情 所以反應變慢了
最近有幾次 我會突然發現我還有什麼是沒有做
所以只好把它做完再去睡覺
恩~ 上次說過我的班表還有課表排的很緊湊
ㄟˊ? 我已經忘記我有沒有講過了
反正就是九點半到五點 都沒有停過
還好我有很多好新朋友會買午餐給我吃
在此真的很感謝很感謝他們!! 這樣關心我身體的狀況
喔對~ 然後上禮拜和這禮拜
我下課以後 都去照顧一個小兒痲痺的女士
他叫Su 三十八歲 在韓國出生 很小的時候 被美國的家庭領養
所以他也只聽的懂英文
我每天下課後 就會去餵他吃飯 幫她換尿片 還有陪她聊天
雖然 他只會說yeah, no
但是 有時候 有些感覺 是用心體會的
想當初我剛開始照顧他的時候
他都不會回我話
當時候真的很困難
因為 他不太能說話 所以通常我都要一直問問題
那我問了問題 他不回答的話 也等於什麼都沒有
可是 現在這樣日積月累的
他每次看到我 都會發出一種聲音
雖然 聽起來依點意義也沒有 但是 我感受到他在跟我說哈囉
我問她話 他也一定回我
現在 我居然可以跟他講話講的很開心
第一次看到他大笑的時候 我好驚訝喔
我從來沒有想過 我可以讓她笑得這麼開心~
想當初 我還很緊張 不知道要跟他說什麼
畢竟 我沒有照顧過不太能說話的人
和人家講話 從來也沒有什麼語言障礙的問題
喔對~ 除了說話 換尿布其實也挺難的
因為你知道 一個人完全放鬆的時候 是很重的
他不能動 只能躺在床上
我換了快到第五六次 才開始抓到訣竅
現在 我可以換的順手喔!! =)
話說上次
我幫她換完尿布以後
就回去圖書館讀書
才剛坐下不久 就接到Bob的電話
他說SU好像大便了
我知道Bob布太會幫人家換尿布 也不是很想幫成年女生換
所以我沒有告訴Bob 我在圖書館
因為我知道我一說 他就會說 那沒關係
我想到 Su 如果沒有換 晚上應該很難入睡吧
我就跟他說請他等我 我現在過去換
這次的經驗 讓我學習到很多
雖然 他把我的時間表打亂了
可是 我很開心我有這個機會照顧他
哎呀 我要草草結束了! 現在要去讀化學 明天有考試!
先這樣囉寶貝們!!
不要忘記我ㄚ 常回來看!! 看到妳們來看我的新聞台
我都很開心ㄝ!
改天我要再來玩一次簽名簿了!!
我想 應該越來越多人來了吧!! =)
先這樣囉 愛妳們
Hey my dear friends!
It’s been a while since my last post
So that’s why im here again to write a new one, incase you are missing me too much! =P
Oh well~ btw..before I start, I need to set up my goal today. I think after typing a new blog, im gonna go finish studying my chemistry that I left off this morning. I guess I will be going to bed around 9pm. Hmm.. kind of hard, but at least before 10pm!! =)
Ive been trying to keep up my regular schedule for a long time.. but I haven’t been able to make it. Oh and you know what? I think I got too many things to do.. so my brain is working very slow these days. Sometimes before I went to bed, I’d found out that I got something left on, so I had to go finish it…then I’d be late for bed. Last time I talked about my crazy schedule~well.. im not sure if I ever mention about it. But anyway, everyday I start from 9:30am to 5pm. I usually don’t have time to get lunch, since my schedule is like, work after class, class after work. But I got tons of great friends, they brought me lunch sometimes, I really appreciate it! Thank you my friends! Love you all!! =)
Oh yeah, last and this week, I go take care of a disable lady after school. Her name is Susan, but we just call her Su. She’s 38 years old, was born in Korea and she got adopted by this American family when she was very young, so basically, she only speaks English! She has poliomyelitis, but im not sure when she got it. Everyday after school, I’d go change her diaper or feed her if she doesn’t have anything to eat yet.
The first time I met Su, tell the truth, I actually was having hard time to know what she wants because all she can say is yes or no. in order to talk to her or help her, I would need to keep asking questions. It is kind of hard because I’ve never had this kind of experiences before and I don’t even know what to ask, like there are tons of things that you can ask. For me, the first time, I was just kept asking some random questions. But gradually, I started to know what she usually wants to do, want to say or want to have. Our conversation started from “no”, “no”, “no”, “no” to “no”, “yes”. By coming over to take care of her more and more times, I can guess what she wants easier and faster. I learned so many things by taking care of her; such as, sometimes when she said “ouch,” she actually was enjoying that. Like, I have to bed her legs and massage them sometimes because her muscles get really tight and whenever I do that, she always sound like she hates it and she’s hurting, but the truth is, she enjoys it a lot. By taking care of her, I’ve learned a lot. I learned more about how disable people think or might feel. She is always lying on her bed and watching TV when I come over and it is always on the same channel. We might think it’s boring, but that’s all she can do. She can’t go anywhere whenever she wants, she can’t reach the TV and change the channel whenever she wants, and she can’t talk or say whatever she wants to say whenever she wants. But she never complained, she accepted it and she didn’t give up her life. She’s always smiling and would use her body language to tell me thank you whenever I do something for her. She still likes to meet new people and she enjoys her life as it is now. I just think that we should be very grateful that we have a healthy and well functioned body. So many of us ’able-bodied people’ are paralyzed in our own lives and I think we shouldn’t be like that; we should look up to those disabled people who don’t give up their life and try our best to live a colorful life. Anyway, im talking too much. Im gonna close this up now~ cuz I gotta go study for my chemistry..got exam tomorrow! Oh well~ my babies! Don’t forget about me, come back as much as you can. I know that I don’t really update it often, but I’d be happy if I see you here each time I posted something. Oh well` im gonna have a signature book next time! Well~ gotta go! See ya, ciao! Love ya! =)
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